I'm a native Texan. We are friendly bunch. I try to be nice, even to the people I don't really like. Bless their hearts.
But I've really had my fill of mean and stupid people. And they seem to come in all shapes and sizes these days. Sometimes it's political propaganda in an email spouting hate. Other times authors are bad mouthing other authors. Sometimes it's people who haven't even read a book, writing cruel reviews and spoilers on Amazon or other book sites.
I would block the emails, but unfortunately the majority of them come from my husband's side of the family and I worry that I might not get something important. I wish, just once, they would check their facts before sending or forwarding an email. It would save me a lot of grief. Or better yet, maybe they could just take me off of their lists.
As for the reviews, I do my best not to read them if they are about my books. But when they pick on my friends or favorite authors, I can't help but get involved. I'm offended when I see other authors or editors knocking books. I mean, they KNOW how tough it is to make it in this business. Not everything is everyone's cup of tea. You negative ninnies need to stop and think about what you are doing. There is this word "karma" that is going to bite you in the ass one day, and the meaner you are, the worse it is going to be.
Our business is changing faster than anyone could have anticipated and we should be lifting one another up not dragging each other down. I'm lucky that I've surrounded myself with great friends in all areas of my life. And even luckier that my author friends feel the same way I do. People such as Barbara Vey at Publisher's Weekly, Sue Grimshaw at Ballantine and Sara Reyes at Fresh Fiction are great examples of people who support the authors they love. We need more people like them. People who celebrate the business we are in.
The world is crazy and kind of sad right now. Call me a Pollyanna, I can take it. But maybe we could just be kinder to one another. In the world of publishing, maybe we could walk in another author's shoes for a bit.
I'm going to give you a chance today to spread some kindness. Say something nice about a book you just read or tell us a story about someone who has done something nice for you.
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